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Don’t get stashed!

‘STASHING’ is the latest dating crime term. It’s when you’ve been with someone a while but they still don’t advertise your existence. Here are some signs to look out for:

1

He or she is happy to stay at your place but goes all weird when you hang out at theirs. It could be a sign that they prefer to control how much time you spend together.

2

It’s been four months but you haven’t met a relative, friend or colleague. If you’re into someone you want to shout about them from the rooftops.

3

It’s been four months and they haven’t asked to meet any of your close mates. You have to ask, are they interested enough in the real you?

4

Do the territorial test. What happens when you are on their regular stomping ground — you visit their gym, you have a picnic in their local park, you meet the after-work crew? If they’re stingy on the PDA they could be protecting their single image.

5

If they never tag you on Facebook/ Insta/Twitter but they tag everyone else. What bigger clue do you need?